You Are Probably Awesome
People will lie to you. I caught up with an old work colleague and friend for a coffee yesterday. She was in this situation where her work — where I used to work — is telling her a bunch of things. Top of mind are: You are bad at your job, and Because of this, we’re going to demote you and pay you less money. Having worked for the very same place, and experiencing at least one of those things (constant negative feedback, which we’ll get to in a moment) and a partial on the other (due to contract, they couldn’t demote me, but they avoided raises when they were applied across rest of the team), I was a sympathetic ear. I think I was also a useful ear, because I mentioned to her that: She is in fact good at Read More …